How to Help People Grow
THE 1-3 SYSTEM
One Command and Three Practical steps
1 Corinthians 3:6-12
The Foundation:
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Every person is somewhere on their spiritual journey. At some point they are born physically. Hopefully they trust Christ as their savior and become born-again. From this point on God wants them to Grow spiritually and become mature (Col 1:8-11).
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God is working in each persons life to grow and mature them (Philippians 1:6; John 16:8-11).
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God uses people to help others grow (1 Corinthians 3:6). Our Goal is to Seek to allow God to use me to move people people forward in their spiritual journey towards trusting in Christ and/or becoming a mature believer.
The One Command: Join God’s Work.
God is working in the people around us. Join God’s work by building relationships, planting seeds and watering (1 Corinthians 3:6-10)
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The 3 Step (No necessarily in Order)
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Step #1: Build Relationships using TICKS.
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Time
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Interest
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Connections (Find things in common)
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Kindness
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Sharing.
Step #2: Planting Seeds (Sharing Truth).
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Ask questions
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What does your church believe on how to get to heaven?
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If you died tonight and stood before God and God asked you, “Why should I let you into heaven, what would you say?â€
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Has anyone ever taken a bible and shown you how you can get to heaven?
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Share truth
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Make the most of opportunities.
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Know how to share the gospel.
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Step #3: Water (Encourage growth)
Use Paul’s 3 Tools (1 Thessalonians 2:12)
- Tool #1: Exhort or Motivate
- Tool #2: Comfort
- Tool #3: Charge
Links:
How to Be Saved and Share the Gospel
http://www.truthapplied.com/articles/41/41
How to Grow
http://www.truthapplied.com/articles/42/how-to-grow
Communication Skills for Evangelism (Off site so I may not endorses everything written)
http://www.intervarsity.org/evangelism/article_item.php?article_id=1593#good
(C) 2006 Arlen Busenitz.
Given at NTBI Chapel on 10-13-06